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Pastor Mark & Lori Kaiser

Married Couples
Faith Temple is committed to helping you develop a strong marriage that is based on Biblical principles. Pastor Mark and Lori Kaiser would like to invite you to invest into your relationship by taking advantage of the tools and resources we have available in order to strengthen your marriage and build a lasting relationship.



Marriage Counseling

While we have certified trained marriage specialists none of them are licensed professional counselors. Our approach to marriage counseling is completely nathetical. We address the issues of marriage from a Biblical viewpoint and give suggestions from our perspective of what Gods word says about how to live together as husband and wife and how to deal with the storms of life with Gods help.


Pre-Marital Counseling
Get your upcoming marriage off to a great start by learning about the principles in God’s word that He lays out for this phase of your life. We recommend our premarital program for all couples that are thinking about getting married, whether you are engaged or not. The program runs for 8 weeks and can be started at any time. We will match you up with your own personal coaches to help you see the great blessing that marriage can be if you do it God’s way.


Encouragement

Marriage can and should a blessing. Conflict is not necessarily a bad thing in your marriage, it's how we deal with it that makes the difference. We have talked about how to be an affective listener in the past but now I would like to lay out some practical steps to resolving conflict in your marriage.

Below are the ten steps that I feel are some of the best ways to resolve conflict. For some you may need help to get this started, if that is you, make sure whomever you use to help they are extremely confidential and aware of the impact that breaking that confidentiality really can be. Know that the Pastors here at Faith Temple are always willing to help you along in the restoration process.

Here are ten steps to resolving conflict:

 
  1. Set a time and place for Discussion (Without Distractions)
  2. Define the problem –be specific
  3. List ways you each contribute to the problem (be honest)
  4. List past attempts to resolve problem that were not successful
  5. Brainstorm possible solutions to the problem (write down at least 10) don’t judge the viability of the suggestions yet.
  6. Discuss and evaluate each of the possible solutions listing pro’s and con’s
  7. Agree on one solution to try
  8. Agree how you will each work toward the solution
  9. Set up another meeting to discuss your progress
10.) Reward each other for progress (careful not to defeat the progress with the reward especially if it’s dealing with money. ie: don’t break the budget rewarding yourselves with a new car)


 

Hope this helps !

Pastor Mark


For more information about marriage coaching, or to set up a pre-marital appointment, contact Pastor Mark Kaiser at mkaiser@faithtemple.net or (585) 473-1680 extension 204

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